Success is a mystery. You can be successful without getting the goal that you intended to achieve. It might be interpreted negatively. You may think it goes against the positive thinking and running towards our dreams. These are important things. But these are not all that matters. This is spirit which has a great role to play. Sometimes we do not follow our heart. Instead we follow our mind. We pursue the path which is perceived logically better. Many of us overlook spirit. But believe me it plays really important role in our life.
Sometimes failure in something may bring tremendously unexpected results. It may strike hard enough to change our course of life.In this case I can mention an example of one of my friends. His divorce resulted positively for him. He was devastated at the initial stage. He was beyond recover. It seemed that he would not be able to come out into the normal life style. He was going apart from the rest of the world.
It took a while to get back to normal. After sometime he was finally got back into his regular life. In fact he came back even better. All this time he was trying to lock him into an invisible boundary. He was unable to get out of the boundary. But his divorce broke the boundary. He discovered a greater world around himself. He had new pair pairs of shoes ready for his feet. A better pair of shoes: a pair of shoes that would help him to walk more comfortably, a pair of shoes which is much more attractive.
The new life of his made him proud of himself. It made his friends and family proud of him. He discovered a new entity of himself, a better entity. A huge part of his was buried inside. Suddenly it came to live and made his life more beautiful. He never knew he had this part inside himself. He just pretended to not having it. Now he is a motivation to other people like him. He helps people to go through rough patch and get into their feet. He helps them to find the inner self of the people.
Now he is happier than ever. This new shoes have fitted into his feet nicely.
Watching him closely I had a very valuable lesson of life. Reinvention may come from the most unexpected source. You never know where you get the first step of your reinvention. It is not very much difficult. It comes when it is supposed to come. You just need to reveal your concealed inner self. There are parts of you which are confused and disordered. You just need to make things clear and reorganize them. You should go for trying new things which you have never tried before. There is no harm to change your shoes if the new pair suits you. Rather, I would say it is good.
Generally it is really difficult to bring changes. And it is even more difficult to accept the change. People get used to their surroundings. They try not to change anything around them. Change appears to be something bad. But it is totally a wrong idea. Sometimes you can be really successful just bringing a simple change out of your set lifestyle. Have faith in yourself and follow your instinct. You will definitely be successful.